• 🇰 🌀 🇱 🇦 🇳 🇦 🇰 🇮 @pawb.social
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    2 months ago

    I lived a couple houses down from a cop.

    His whole family were dickish Karen types and got the annual block party shut down. Their house was regularly egged and TPd until they moved. I may or may not have been involved in some of those eggings.

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    I would just mind my business . If he occasionally needs to use a trash can or whatever, I’m not causing any trouble. No reason to assume the worst, but if he starts causing trouble, yeah moving would be the only solution there.

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    2 months ago

    We had cops for neighbours at one place and one down the street in another. Both great people. Used to get together with them, kids played together, etc.

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      If you can pull it off, that might legit be worth it, just in case. In a single party consent jurisdiction making the recording wouldn’t even be illegal (IANAL).

      Of course, in a perfect world, the cop wouldn’t take drugs, and if they did, would put justice over their personal worry you might hypothetically leak it. I’ll let the readers hash out the probabilities.

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    Cops can be fine, many of them want to do good. But law enforcement also attracts/breeds a certain type of thumbhead person that either loves or hates you.

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    My general rule for cops is to keep my head down. They have no particular reason to bother me, but they’re also a certain kind of person. (Inevitably, because the job is awful and nobody else can handle it long-term)

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      What is awful about the job? I’ve never done it so I don’t know. But it seems like they cannot be fired, even if they mess up so badly that someone dies. That doesn’t sound so bad to me.

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        They deal confrontationally with the worst people available at their worst moments, and sometimes do it all day. Movies make us think it’s all masterminds and shootouts, but actual calls are 99% drunks, bullies and wife-beaters.

        Like, think of the most toxic interaction you’ve ever had. Now consider doing it multiple times a week. You either become toxic yourself or you burn out.

        Edit: You know the Florida man meme? Florida just has laws that get more details published. It’s like that everywhere, and probably less funny and more traumatic in person.

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          Okay but when i’m in a toxic situation at work I can’t shoot someone and get away without consequences lol.

          When police show up to a scene, ordinary citizens have no power over them whatsoever. The police have the upper hand, every single time. Whereas if I get into an argument with a co-worker, client, or shopper I could be fired.

          The reason workplaces are toxic are because employees are powerless. Police can literally murder people anytime they want and get away with it.

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    There was a cop in the neighbor right outside ours ( you have to drive through that neighborhood to get to ours), I thought having him there would curb some of the drug activity, I was wrong. It was obvious pretty early on he was dirty.

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    Depends on the people, if they are good people then let’s be friends, if not then just ignore them and be cordial. Like with any neighbour.

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    Cop lives somewhere down the street.

    I ignore him.

    But I also have talked to the neighbors on purpose like. Twice. In almost twenty years lol.

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    2 months ago

    A bunch of social media accounts with their name and address may start attacking Scientology and right-wing crazies.

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    I had a cop two door down for years. I loved having that cop car sitting there every night.