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Cake day: June 13th, 2025

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  • I’m not sure about banning smoking outside of hospitals. The hospital near me doesn’t allow smoking by the entrances but has a designated smoking zone.

    I’m not a smoker, but I’m thinking of when my grandma was dealing with my grandpa in the intensive care unit. She was already stressed to the gills with family and husband stress. I wouldn’t want her to have to deal with nicotine withdrawal, too (or finding alternative methods of nicotine use).

    On the other hand, there was an asshole smoking right at the hospital entrance last time I was there. Screw that guy.

    Grandpa was in the hospital for emphysema due to a lifetime of smoking. He left the hospital and quit smoking. I don’t think Grandma ever quit, even with full-on dementia. So, mixed feelings about old folks smoking near hospitals.



  • I had those neighbors growing up. Loud parties until 1 am on school nights, constantly revving their motorcycle. They also parked a boom lift in their driveway and I’d routinely wake up to their teen son looking in my second floor bedroom window.

    Surprise, talking with them didn’t help anything. My dad helped by getting me earplugs. My mom told me to stop bothering her by having needs.









  • We use it at my library/archive to convert EADs (XML finding aids) into something we can present to a human.

    This change breaks something that’s been working for us without issue for over a decade, and it’s personally a PITA because I’m the only dev-adjacent person in the library and fixing this takes me away from other stuff. (I’m spread thin and we’ve been in a hiring freeze for 5 years. I love my coworkers but there’s so much work stuff I have to deprioritoze in order to do the important stuff, it feels unfair when a big corporation decides to break something on me.)





  • They have a “sensitive marinara” that doesn’t trigger my partner’s IBS. The “sensitive” part is that it lacks garlic and onion. (Partner loves garlic but it doesn’t love him back.)

    The only other pasta sauce we’ve found that works for him is from Fody and is more expensive. Luckily, pasta is cheap so it kind of balances out. And I can still have my garlicy oniony goodness by using my own sauce.