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I’m not putting in more effort than you clowns unless I feel like it lol

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Cake day: July 1st, 2025

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  • Some safety equipment encourages accidents.

    For bicycles though, can’t really say anything negative about helmets. They save brains.

    American Football though? I bet the concussion problem would go away overnight if they took them away. You don’t bash your head against someone unless you think you’re invulnerable thanks to a helmet anyway.




  • I don’t know the exact reason why, but what i’ve been told is that once you’re known to have overstayed you’re effectively banned from getting another visa to come back in for an amount of time, with that time starting after you are documented as leaving.

    I’m pretty sure there’s something that when you overstay a visa, get deported or have some kind of issue you basically can’t get another one for 10 years. If you accrue a debt like medical debt and then leave without paying, the same is true afaik - can’t get in until you pay, and I think the 10 year wait starts when it’s paid in full.

    We had a lawyer for my wife’s process and she guided us. It’s been a while, but we submitted our documentation within the timeline of her visa, and the lawyer told us she’s fine to stay even though the visa expires before you really get a response beyond “we received your paperwork” confirming delivery. I think you get a case number with USCIS very early as well. It’s been over 5 years for us at this point and my memory of the specific steps is not great. My wife handled the process for the most part since she couldn’t legally work at all until she got a work authorization a couple of years in.

    I think we also were given a warning to not leave after getting married until she got a green card because then they wouldn’t let her back in or give her work authorization until the sponsorship cleared. There were also many extra delays and extra steps added to the whole process during the first trump administration, like the very long wait for work authorizations was not typical (and an obvious attempt at stopping poor immigrants.) I’m not going to lie, I was worried outside of the biden administration about them throwing a wrench into it. Many people mid-process this past year had their visas revoked and were deported even during their final interview or after the interview while going to the swearing in ceremony despite doing nothing wrong, being in the correct process, and already being cleared. Their problem was that they were somali or haitian or from some other vulnerable country with the “wrong” skin color.



  • I’ve met multiple people who married immigrants who overstayed their visa and had to deport for something like 5-10 years before being let into the US.

    The citizen doesn’t need to leave obviously, but in the multiple cases I’ve personally known dating back to the 90s, the partner leaves the country to be with them until they can come back.

    This is however not how it works if you marry someone here on a legitimate visa. Generally after marrying within the timeline of a visa before it expires you can stay with the citizen. My wife did this, and we just finished the process recently. You still need to get your paperwork in, but there’s some kind of grace period due to the marriage physically in the US along with the petition.




  • I skipped the switch 2 despite heavily using the switch 1 for many years, and i’m planning on skipping future iterations of playstations as well. PC has usurped consoles for me entirely.

    Even couch gaming on linux is better than a console. I’m all set. The deck or it’s equivalents handles any handheld gaming I want to do and it’s trivial to stream locally if I don’t want to have a gaming computer near my tv.

    Oh, and i’ve ditched microsoft controllers to. 3rd party quality is phenomenal nowadays and it’s not limited to any one brand. I have this flydigi and 8bitdo stuff that all feel amazing and are more reliable than microsoft’s own and are cheaper with more features. It’s so nice not being dependent on overpriced garbage!