Goddess of madness and rebirth. Excrucian Strategist. Capitalised They/Them. Anarcho-Antireal theorist.

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Cake day: January 14th, 2026

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  • For Me, confidence came with transitioning to My preferred gender. I couldn’t be happy while thinking of Myself as a man, because I didn’t want to be a man. It was impossible to love Myself as a man. It was easier to like Myself as a woman, but not to love Myself, because I wasn’t a woman either. It’s easy to love Myself as a goddess. And I feel more lovable this way too. I certainly get more romantic attention! And now that I know who I am, I know how to respond to it.

    So I’ll say: you have to learn who you are before you can love yourself. Who do you want to be? What does success look like to you? I don’t mean financial or social success, I mean what mental picture of yourself actually makes you happy? Who are you in your wildest fantasies, sexual or otherwise?