I have it linked to my watch sleep mode. Hit sleep lights turn off.

I have been thinking of this myself. I think what ill do eventually is dmz a headscale coordinator instance on an old raspi and then make that internet facing for my tailscale instances. But before running my own coordinator want to do is go over some NIST guidelines first to harden the raspi. I think starting with what you want to achive and build a threat model helps narrow options of implementation and cuts the noise.

Hahaha right! Wanna blow it just tell them they will have to accomidate your basic needs.